Crisis Counseling Test

It leaves the survivor with a sense of unreality that may last a long time.

Is a grief that people experience when they incur a loss that is not or cannot be openly acknowledged, publicly mourned or socially supported.

Miscarriage, abortion and inability to have a child, job loss, physical losses.

Longer we live the more losses of friends we experience

The loss of children to college/life is a gradual loss for a parent

Its difficult to handle the next loss when we are still recovering from the present one.

Death, divorce, diagnosis.

These are difficult in any person because of the intangibility of the issues.

In completing a timeline of major events, the counselee will engage in a process that helps him or her identify not only losses but also the grief work that still needs to be completed

Not loser
Requires identification
Are not replaceable

Inappropriate self-disclosure.
Not interrogating with too many questions.
Not giving some space to cry.
Too much reassurance promotes dependency.
Emotional detachment & judgment
Counselor dominance
A passive response as a lack or care, criticism or rejection.

Its important to remember that each individual will need to be approached differently when you are confronting a wrong behavior.

Confrontation at its best is an extension of advanced, accurate empathy, it a response to a counselee based on the deep understanding of his or her feelings, experiences, and behavior. The stronger the relationship the more impactful the confrontation will be. It must come about because of actual care.

When You end up catching the disorder of the person or people you are helping…

‘einfuhlung’,
“to feel with”.