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Invisible loyalties
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- A state in which a child unconsciously tries to pay a debt to his parents, even to his own detriment
- Often represent the pathology of the family as well as its potential health - Title of book that Nagy wrote |
Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy's emphasis
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Loyalty, trust, and relational ethics
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Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy
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- Trained as a psychoanalyst
- Applied psychoanalytic ideas to family therapy - Best known for developing the contextual approach to family therapy - Student of Virginia Satir - 1920-2007 |
4 dimensions of relational reality
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1) Facts - i.e. genetic input, physical health, ethnic-cultural background, basic historical facts, events in a person's life cycle2) Individual psychology
- The domain of most individual psychotherapies3) Systemic transactions - The domain covered by classical systemic family therapy - i.e. rules, power, alignments, triangles, feedback, etc4) Relational ethics |
Relational Ethics
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- The ethical or "justice" dimension of close relationships
- Focuses in particular on the nature and roles of connectedness, caring, reciprocity, loyalty, legacy, guilt, fairness, accountability, and trustworthiness - within and between generations |
Multidirected partiality
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- The main methodological principle of Contextual Therapy
- Consists of a sequential, empathic turning towards member after member (even absent members), in which both acknowledgment and expectation are directed at them |
The main methodological principle of Contextual Therapy
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Multidirected partiality
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Contextual Therapy sees family conflict as caused by...
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Legacies of invisible loyalties and obligations from the past that are passed on through generations
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Contextual Therapy believes family dysfunction is created when...
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Trust and caring break down in a family
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Contextual Therapy techniques
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- Facing repressed emotional conflict
- Renegotiating relationships - Facing rational and irrational guilt - Creating accountability - Creating environment of trustworthiness |
Entitlement
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- What one has coming to him
- Contextual Therapy term |
Family ledger
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- A psychological accounting system that is maintained over generations and includes information about what has been given to whom and who still owes something to someone else
- Contextual Therapy term |
Family legacy
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- Refers to the expectations that are handed down from previous generations
- Contextual Therapy term |
Family loyalty
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- The allegiance children feel towards their parents based on parental fairness
- Contextual Therapy term |
Indebtedness
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- What one owes and to whom
- Contextual Therapy term |